When it happened (the death of your husband) you might think God had forsaken you.
You might think He had abandoned you; to who? I remember His words in the book of Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end”
If He (God) allowed it, that means He has better plans for me.
I got to understand God that He doesn’t abandon His own.
People may make you feel He had.
The world will make you feel He had.
But it takes YOU to know and declare that you are going through a refining process.
God can never abandon you.
Your season of manifestation is near.
He said ‘He will never leave you or forsake you’
No not at this time of your life!
And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.
The devil might want to bring guilt into your heart.
Remember who he is – THE ACCUSER .
This is not the time to feel guilty of what you didn’t do or what you would have done to save his life; you are not God!
He says His ways are not our ways neither His thoughts ours.
Let’s stop thinking ‘ How I wish’
It will save you from developing high blood pressure.
It will save you from self pity.
It will save you from gathering pity party around you.
Let’s throw all the WISHES away.
The moment you look for pity party the more you increase your grief.
The more you look at who didn’t call or come to see you the more you add pain into your heart. Unforgiveness begin to set in. You lose focus on what God has in stock for you.
At times in your situation the devil try to play with your emotions. No one has called me. Everyone has abandon me.
If no one called you rejoice!
If no came to check on you fine!
If no one cared it’s ok!
Remember “He will never share His glory with anyone”
Who knows if they cared for you and at the time they want you to compromise your faith and you are not able; it then becomes a problem for you.
Don’t live in bitterness or be bitter over anyone.
At times they might be a sort of burden and distraction.
There might be some things that the Lord would want to show or tell you, but you need to be quiet.
When you refused to hear and get it God will create confusion just as what he did in the case of Abraham.
After then he saw greater and mighty things.
Jesus is the only one that can give you the Joy and peace you need. Not the kind of peace man gives.
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid”
That is why you have to marry Him again and again.
Cling to Him.
God says He is the husband to the widow.
Let’s understand this.
Bitterness creates setbacks in one’s life.
Avoid pity party club
I don’t regard myself as a widow. You know why? I don’t want to be at the mercy of people. I have a husband that supercedes the one that died. God brought him. Before he (my late husband) came God was. When he came God was still there. God only used him to do whatever he did for you. Now he is no more because his maker had demanded for him. God is still here!
God brought him at first; He has taken him, so let Him (God) do with me whatever He wills.
Even when your husband was alive if God didn’t use him to do what he did would he ever have done that?
His glory He will not share with anyone.